can change the name easily mah .... there's this service around
that does this based on the number of strokes .....
but you can't change your 8 characters ....
but since you're married now, you got to look at MPB's 8
characters in conjunction with yours too .... you're probably
neutralized by him now ... 
I think so :x
Last time I bully all my bfs one
Now I kenna bully by him. Maybe it's karma :x
Btw for yr info, my name kenna change before liao I cannot
change it again.
My initial chinese name was supposed to be too 'weak' so they
changed it. Now supposed to have too much Sha Qi -_-"